"Good point. Maybe make it opt in. Cake on your birthday if you want it, and then we just pick some random day in the gaps to be the joint party for everyone who doesn't want or have a specific day." She smiles a bit, and adds, "Somebody... I think it was Bastien? Suggested rifters should celebrate their 'rift day.' Anniversary of when they came through to Thedas. But I'd still be a mess because I have two."

She takes another (appreciative) sip.

"Anyway. How have you been hanging in? We've all had a hell of a few weeks, but I feel like you got hit more than most in the weeks leading up."